Actually, it is possible
What if I told you that it is possible to find someone who understands and enjoys the same things as you? At a certain point in adulthood, it can seem that you’re just finally getting to know yourself, when life pressures you to choose. Making room for your authentic pleasure feels selfish, incompatible with real-life responsibilities, or like a part of the past.
But actually, knowing your desires and how to express them are the keys that unlock the best dating experiences. Now, it's more widely understood that experiencing the kind of intimacy you want boosts personal wellness, as well as relationship satisfaction. With more ways to reach more people, it's about cutting through the noise to find those hidden gems. Through building confidence and putting yourself out there, you will be challenged. But it's worth putting in the effort to grow so that you can meet likeminded souls who open the door to so much more.
Work with me, a real-life human, to enhance your communication skills and elevate your approach to modern dating. Refine your strategy on dating apps, and feel more prepared for the different phases of connection- from sending message 1 to going on date 3. This casual drop-in service allows for help with anything from picking out the right outfit to decoding a confusing text message- just reach out during my opening hours and ask me your question.
own your desires
date effectively and authentically
communicate with clarity
be a safe person
explore & experience
My Approach
My approach is compassionate, non-judgemental, and informed by my ongoing education in psychology and deep personal understanding of the LGBTQ+ and BDSM/kink communities through lifestyle and professional experience. I can also offer intuitive modalities like tarot reading, to spark interesting conversations and self-reflection with archetypal wisdom. I specifically enjoy helping coach clients who are re-starting dating after a long time, coming out later in life, or readjusting their sense of self after a change in belief or community. I understand the work it takes to carve out a path for yourself off the beaten track, and build new relationships at different stages in life.
My hope is that after speaking with me, you come away with some more clarity on situations, a fresh perspective to keep you thinking and growing, and feel empowered to trust yourself a little more with how you navigate your relational world.
CertHE psychology
